That's not okay from a boss. I've been a boss. And my last boss (I'm pretty much retired now) was amazing. Very empathetic.

But it seems to me you're doing the everything right way. And sometimes, you won't, which is okay, too.

I hope and pray for the best for both of you. I'm going to choose to believe that since she beat it once, she will again.

Sometimes, too, yelling at God works. It worked for me just the other day in a big way. I'll talk about it someday. This day, and these times, are for you and your wife.