In these kinds of regimes, it's whoever they decide is the enemy.
To adapt a famous quote but for your husband's case specifically:
First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist.
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Iranians, and I did not speak out—because I was not Iranian.
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
Thanks, Denise. And if you're worried about polling, remember that the Kansas anti-abortion referendum polled at 4 points in favor of yes. It lost by 20 points. The polls are a scam.